Diou in a Journey

No woman no cry, no woman no cry,,,hmm sound so perfectionist. Crying is taboo for most of people, because it leads to show our emotion instability. Especially for man, hmm when the last time i cried??

One research was conducted by Li Jin a psychologist from China, he claims that one of a very effective way to reduce stress is by crying indeed. If you ever see Japanese cartoon movie namely Doraemon one the character called Nobita often cry very badly but then smile widely after word. Its just an alternative, but let’s see the benefits of cry.

1. Reduce stress and pressure

2. Throw away all negativism, such as anger and disappointment

3. Reduce dangerous chemical substance

4. Re-fresh mind

Avoid stress by crying? why not,,,hiks hiks hiks. Just remember not to cry in every occasion though.

Pic: Boy cries from Google Image

In relation to some latest news about Majapahit updates by some Indonesian media lately. I just want to share something about this one mighty empire. As i remember Majapahit experiences a gold era when Nusantara still free from imperialism and war among kingdoms.

If only, all the best archaeologist can find Majapahit sites again and rebuild the building just for remembrance and lesson for young generation, that in order to succeed, a country should has self-awareness and resilience. Majapahit had Mahapatih Gadjah Mada as one of it leader who has a clear defined vision about future.

I wish this cultural and historical heritage will enrich our knowledge as well about the importance of national integration, there is an interdependence relationship among us, we should not separate our self from the circle, why not we think about future, build another Majapahit might be far from easy, but we have the spirits.

Pic of Majapahit Ring from Google image.

In daily interaction with people, i notice some incredible multi faces character, some of them argues that they want to act as smiling face person, hence everywhere they go, no wonder there will be a nice smile at their face.

Some who is really serious about life, or might be just pretending to be serious, accordingly considering a high tension mimics face. Well, your external expression can be used to predict your internal feeling situation, of course we can tell a lie, yet we can not lie to our self indeed.

As suggested by many emotional intelligent experts, personal resilience is important in order to balance emotion, some ways to manage emotion is by establishing goals, proactive in social interaction, open minded and develop positive self-talk. It’s time to let others see the true color of our face, just do not be afraid.

Pic: Google Image 

This temple is located in Singasari East Java, it was build in the era of Singasari Kingdom lead East Java Nusantara before the establishment of Majapahit. It takes one hour from Malang Airport to get here, beautiful and historical. If you love to learn history, do not just read from books, come to see this one "Singasari Temple" in Singasari Malang.

On the one hand, this is lake Bratan in Singaraja (Lion King) in Bali. Once you visit this place, do not forget to return again, it offers a beautiful panorama, fresh air and some local cultural attraction. If you ever come to Bali, do not forget to visit Singaraja, around 5 hours driving from Denpasar Airport. A suitable place for couple.

This is Singapore located in South East Asia, the paradise of shopping centres, ultimately clean and well managed city. As one of Harbor City State in the world it offers good infrastructure, if ever come to this place just be aware of many regulations it has. Yet Singapore is one of the best city in Asia.

Have you ever been there, these 3 "Singa", obviously different. Once you arrive in the airport soon you will smell and see the different, wanna go there,,,,

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Never stop complaining, that what we can see from someone who ignore himself to thank you on what he/she good at. Start to realize the uniqueness of ourselves, stop comparing ourselves with others.

There are, and in fact we can not count how many things we have, yet we forget to thank the creator about it. Well, thank you it is not only mentioning the word thank you, but do something about it, explore it, share it, and be positive about it, then sooner or later you gonna be the happiest person on the face of the earth.

What are you good at, sports, science, arts, cooking, writing, public speaking, singing, emotional stability, health, friends, families, shoes, clothes, food, water, fruits and you named it by yourself.

Thanks for FS that allows us to connect and maintain warm relationship so far.

Pic: Google Image

Black should match with white, dark and bright, happy and sad, difficult and easy, man and woman. What about love? what is the opposite of this…the answer is hate.

As a continued story after "when you love someone" few days back. Accordingly, let’s see from the negativism perspective, what is going to happen when we hate something or someone so much.

You will tell all bad things about someone you hate, never talk to her/him, do not want to hear any story or news about the one, hesitate to speak, unhappy to see she/he is happy and conversely smile when they have problems or experience difficulties, you just want them to disappear, or worse than that.

Yups, all those sort of feeling are natural to happen,,do remember that all of us just human being, who is far from perfect, why not forgive them, because actually the more you hate them the more you hurt yourselves. Let’s develop a positive behavior toward everyone, who knows the one you hate so much, someday will be the one you miss very badly?

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When i was in undergraduate school, i have a female friend who tried to commit suicide. Fortunately she is alive up to now. It was not clear what is the main boggle behind her naive decision at that time. Once she told me that she was disappointed with her father’s decision on the family issue, she does not get enough care from her parents indeed.

Anyway, suicide is not the best way to run away from all problems. As often appears in the local or international news, the number of people who commit suicide increase day by day. I am sure there are other ways to solve problems, such as discuss with your closest people, getting more spiritual intelligent, and just aware that you might create another problems after committing suicide, not for you but for others.

When individual life style is becoming preferable than socialistic style, there is a change that you might feel lonely and feel no one care, but please ensure that there is (God) that always care of you indeed.

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Australia has so much concern of disable people. As i have seen in Sydney and Melbourne, disable people has their own public facilities and preferences. I believe people with disability also have their own support to do sport here.

What about in a developing country like Indonesia, there is no enough concern for them. Disable people often underestimated and discriminated. One example is when one Indonesian disable Athlete won 1 gold and 1 silver medal in China Summer Olympic last week. Almost there is no news about him, or even praise as a result of his achievement in international event.

It is so different when Crish John or Taufik Hidayat won a world champion, both government and private will eventually provide them with millions of money, houses and so on. I do hope some one can change the future of disable people in Indonesia.

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Hmm Ghost is it real or not no one can prove its true until you can experience and see it by yourself. Yet many people believe that there is a world behind this world, the world that untouchable with human five senses.

I wish i do not scare you and myself moreover, since recent technology is developed by western expert to detect the existence of Ghost. This ghost detector is famous in country like Japan, most of Japanese who dare to buy and play with the tools find it is interesting and challenging.

What about you? do you want to see Sundel Bolong, Kuntilanak, Suster ngesot or what ever term they used in the Movie,,,just get the Ghost Detector from ebay if there is and have fun.

Me myself, no i do not want to buy….

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Destiny is something that we never know until the day it comes to us. We never know who is the one was born for us. You might be ever get in the same bus in a journey, come to the same school, eat in the same restaurant, or even come together to a cinema at the same theaters, yet we never realize that one.

When the God gives us a chance to know someone who will in the future be someone special for you, that time maybe too short, too rush, too fast and too hard. Yet, do frankly to yourself that the one who never close to you is the one you looking for indeed. The time and efforts will answer the puzzle.

Turn left, Turn Right is a Taiwanese movie, starring Takeshi Kanesiro and Gigi Leung Wing-Kei. This movie will make us think that true love is all we need, true love will make you survive in this sophisticated world. Watch it when you have time……highly recommended…

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